For those that have been harmed or traumatised, healing is a complex and sometimes elusive goal. Although many people pursue healing at some stage in their lives, the question of how to achieve it can be overwhelming.
Many experts may suggest a certain approach, but as a Case Worker specialising in child sexual abuse, I have learned that this is a lifelong process, and everyone must follow their own unique path.
For many who have suffered religious based trauma, it can be hard to feel safe enough to reach out to others to achieve connection. For others, it can be hard to imagine why some people are unable to “let it go”. If we all work to find understanding and compassion whenever we can, together we may find a better way to move forward.
Larry* is a survivor who has taught me a lot about what it is to carry the lifelong burden of childhood trauma and in particular, where connection and spirituality can aid in healing and growth.
He said many survivors struggle in isolation and darkness every day.
“There is a void in our lives, an emptiness that dulls the spark of humanity, and life becomes a grind to just endure,” Larry said.
“I see spirituality as providing meaning in my life. It provides me with a connection to others and points me towards a power greater than myself, whatever way you conceptualise that power.
“I am reminded by our First Nations brothers and sisters that when I look into nature, when I gaze at a starry sky and when I marvel at the light of the moon, I am being connected to something greater than me,” he said.
Larry, along with many other survivors, access the support of Zimmermann Service Healing and Support within the Diocese’s CatholicCare agency.
Zimmerman Service Healing and Support aims to provide psychosocial support and confidential assistance to anyone who has been impacted by sexual abuse within the Diocese.
Recognising that healing is a journey not an end goal, Zimmerman Service acknowledges the profound trauma experienced by many at the hands of trusted individuals. To build a safer world for future generations, we must continue to remember and learn from the past.
For more information on services contact 4923 0636 or email ZimmermanService@healingandsupport.org.au
Support can also be sought from The Clergy Abused Network (C.A.N) by contacting 0408 909 950 or 0408 515 149.
Perpetual Day of Remembrance
This year September 15, our Perpetual Day of Remembrance, is a Sunday.
Resources to support the community's prayer response are available on the diocesan website.
The range of resources enables everyone to participate in whatever way is most authentic, from lighting a candle and perhaps saying a prayer in your home, to joining with others at Mass on Sunday September 15.
For more information visit mn.catholic.org.au/church-mission/perpetual-day-of-remembrance/
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